Written and published by X
You know Angela, right? She’s such a gem—super helpful and incredibly popular with the bartenders. They all know her by name! Angela’s been around since 2016, and she’s become a vital part of creating safer spaces for people in nightlife. What's really amazing about her is that she’s there for everyone, no matter their gender—she’s all about offering support without judgment. If you ever feel unsafe, you should definitely ask for Angela next time you’re out. She’s got your back.
Angela is actually the name of a campaign that started in the UK, designed to help anyone who feels unsafe while out at bars, clubs, restaurants, and venues. If you're ever in trouble or just need some help, all you have to do is ask for “Angela” or order an “angel shot.” The staff will immediately recognize it as a request for assistance and know exactly what to do to get you out of harm’s way. In a world where we’re meeting more people through dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, it’s no longer just about wondering if you’ll hit it off—it's about asking yourself, "Am I safe?" The unfortunate reality is that people are out there with bad intentions, and we have to take steps to protect ourselves.
I really admire the progressiveness of initiatives like this, and I hope we continue to move in the right direction to make our nightlife experiences safer. Another great addition I’ve seen popping up in venues recently are cup covers—simple, yet brilliant rubber covers that you place over your drink to prevent anyone from tampering with it. These small innovations make a huge difference in creating a safer environment, and I hope we see even more like it.
Unfortunately, we live in a world where precautions like these are necessary. It could happen to anyone—no one is completely immune from becoming a target. Some might argue that spreading the idea of asking for "Angela" could ruin it or make it less effective, but I disagree. Even if someone overhears you, once you’ve said the word, the staff will recognize that you’re in trouble and can quickly call for help—whether that’s security or a manager. You shouldn’t have to be scared of going out. Just remember to be cautious and keep your safety in mind, so you can have fun without worry.
When you’re immersed in the nightlife scene, especially in a city like DC, it can feel like you’re always living in the fast lane. And while that can be exciting, it’s not always healthy. Coming from someone who goes out every weekend, I can tell you—it’s important to take breaks. It’s not Vegas-level crazy, but it definitely has its share of the "Sin City" vibe. The energy can feel overwhelming, and over time, it can start to wear you down. The partying, the drinking, and the late nights can take a toll on your soul. Protect your energy and know when it’s time to step back and recharge. There’s no reason to spend hundreds of dollars every weekend just to keep up with the hustle and burn yourself out.
I’ve seen firsthand how this lifestyle can damage people. Even if your date or the person you're with doesn’t seem like they’re directly causing harm, but something just feels off, trust your instincts—ask for Angela. In fact, many of the same people who contribute to the darker side of nightlife—the ones who are most likely to cause harm or put you in a vulnerable situation—are often the ones responsible for things like spiking drinks. It’s better to be safe than sorry. Always stay vigilant and trust your gut, even if you don’t have concrete reasons to feel uneasy. -X
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